Feb 26, 2010

Do not force people to follow you

Assalamualaikum to all friends and readers.

I'm just writing a short message to anyone who like to leave this kind of message in my blogs. e.g. "follow me, i follow you", "follow you, follow me back", "follow me", etc. It's kind of annoying because I do not like people forcing me to follow their blogs. I'll follow any blogs that I like.

I'm not saying that my blog is very good, no! Not everything that I've shared here is worth reading but there are people who volunteered to follow this blog. I am so thankful because that makes me think that, they are following because they find something interesting for them here. Sometimes, I trace them and if I find that their blogs are to my liking, I simply follow. No force at all.

If you leave that kind of messages in my shoutbox, even though your blog is good, I might not be tempted to visit or follow because the way you try to gain attention is making me annoyed. I'm so sorry.

So... please, do not write those kind of messages in KakChik's Wardrobe because you will be wasting your energy and time. I am easily interested if you drop by, give salaam, at least read briefly whatever I've wrote and write some comments. I will be try to visit and do the same to your blog.

That's all, wassalam.

12 comments:

Nadya Heidi aka nadxoxo said...

Salam. I totally agree with you, Kak Chik!

YoshaMaDa said...

SalaAm..

Itu cara yang betul nak buat kawan.. Haha..

Mana boleh dipaksa-paksa..

Unknown said...

This is why I took off the shout box from my blog.

Unknown said...

Wkslm Nad. Thanks for agreeing.

p/s: I don't know that you are a Puan now. Congrats Nad.

Unknown said...

Wkslm HaWa.
Berkenalan dan berkawan telah diajar oleh nabi, jadi kita ikut ajelah kerana ia boleh jadi satu ibadah jika kena caranya.
Memaksa ni membuatkan orang yang dipaksa rasa geram dan tidak ikhlas.

Unknown said...

Adib, you maybe right but I still need it in this blog, hehe.

Nadya Heidi aka nadxoxo said...

hihi thanks kak chik :)

Anonymous said...

salam

tumpang baca dan tumpang lalu

Hajar Alwi said...

Assalamualaikum Kak Chik,

I can understand your grievances. In my humble opinion there shouldn't be compulsion primarily because I really can't see the point of 'following' if we have no intention to be kept updated.

Unknown said...

You are welcome Nad.

Unknown said...

Wa'alaikummussalam Hajar. I agree with you 100%. To follow is to always be able to read their updates.

Unknown said...

wkslm zie. silakan...

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