Sharing: The age of a woman should observe hijab in front of a boy

Assalamualaikum dear friends,

I'm a bit busy getting ready for tomorrow's event. There are still a lot of abayaat to fold and pack. So... while I'm doing that, I'll share with you a Q & A about the above topic which I have copied from this fanpage, Niqab; The Face Veil.

Please pray for a successful event tomorrow.

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Question:-

What is the age at which a woman should observe hijab from a boy – is it when he reaches the age of discernment or when he reaches the age of puberty?.

Answer:-

Praise be to Allaah.

Allaah says in the passage where He speaks of those to whom it is permissible to show one’s adornments (interpretation of the meaning):

“…or small children who have no sense of feminine sex”

[al-Noor 24:31]

If a child shows some awareness of a woman’s ‘awrah and starts to look at her and talk to her a great deal, then it is not permissible for a woman to uncover in front of him.

This varies from one boy to another in terms of natural disposition and in terms of the company that he keeps. A boy may have a greater interest in women if he sits with people who talk about them a great deal, and if it were not for that he would not be particularly interested in them.

What matters is that Allaah has set the guidelines for this matter when He said (interpretation of the meaning):

“…or small children who have no sense of feminine sex”

[al-Noor 24:31]

i.e., these are among the ones in front of whom it is permissible for a woman to show her adornments, if they have no interest in women.

Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him), Majmoo’at As’ilah tahumm al-Usrah al-Muslimah, p. 148

Among the things which indicate that a child has started to be aware of a woman’s ‘awrah are the following:

- He describes women to others

- He can distinguish between a beautiful woman and an ugly one

- He compares the way women look

- He stares at women for a long time

Undoubtedly movies and soap operas, as well as social corruption, lead to children being aware of women’s ‘awrahs at an early age, so we have to be very careful. We ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound.

Shaykh Muhammad Saalih al-Munajjid